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- EASTER SUNDAY -
 
"The Familiar Stranger"
by
Dr. William dePrater
 

Preached at Beckley Presbyterian Church on April 4, 2010 

 

Scripture ReadingLuke 24: 13-35

 

Hope—hope is essential for our lives.  Hope is the fabric about which our lives are woven.  For us to lose “hope,” that is the worst tragedy that can befall us.  A friend of mine recently told me about a young couple in his church.  They had hoped to have a child.  Yet it seemed that time and time again, they had suffered one disappointment after another.  They got medical counseling and fertility treatments at a nationally known hospital. The appointments were expensive and not covered by their insurance plan.  But hope causes us to live for the future, and we put all our resources toward the realization of that hope.  You can guess what happened.  

 

One day she excitedly called her pastor on the phone.  The pregnancy test was positive!  Everyone in their church celebrated with them.  The Presbyterian Women threw them a baby shower.  Everyone knew the love that she and her husband had for their expected baby. The couple had painted the guest bedroom, bought new curtains, and a new crib. Then, one night, she awoke to discover she was bleeding.  In panic, she awoke her husband.  They rushed to the hospital.  She was examined in the emergency room.  Then came the hope-shattering news—there had been a miscarriage—their hope for baby was gone.  Their celebration turned to wailing and her withdrawal from others.  She told my friend, “We can’t go through this again.  We had so hoped.”  My friend sensing their deep pain did not know how to console her and her husband.  Hopelessness had cut a deep and painful gash in their lives.

 

Jesus’ disciples likewise had lost “hope.”  They were so hopeless that two of them had left the others in Jerusalem.  They had felt that they had to get out of there.  They were going home to Emmaus—back to work—back to some routine. Yet for them, Emmaus was more than a location on a map.  Frederick Buechner was right when he said that Emmaus is that place to where we all go when we are feeling hopeless.  Emmaus is the place where we all go when we want to throw up our hands and cry out, “What difference does it really make anyway?”   To go to Emmaus is for us to attempt to run away from life’s defeats. 

 

These two travelers, Cleopas and possibly his wife, had placed their hope in Jesus. They knew in their hearts that he was the promised Messiah.  Yet, the terror of the previous week had shattered their hope.  Jesus’ trial, crucifixion, death, and burial had been too much for them.  There were rumors about Jesus’ tomb being empty.  Yet that empty tomb was not what they had hoped for—they had hoped for a continuing relationship with a living Jesus.  It took them just two hours to walk that road to Emmaus.  That is how long they had to talk over the terrible events of that past week.

 

Barbara Brown Taylor reminds us that Dr. Luke is the only gospel writer that told the story of what happened on that road to Emmaus.  Yet, everyone has walked that road to Emmaus at one time or another.  She writes, “It is the road you walk when your …candidate has been defeated; your loved one has died—the long road back to the empty house; the piles of unopened mail, to life as usual, if life can ever be usual again...  It is the road of deep disappointments, and walking it is the living definition of sad.”  (“Blessed Brokenness,” Gospel Medicine, page 20.)

 

As they walked, they talked. Along the way, a familiar stranger met up with them on that road to Emmaus.  He seemed to be going in the same direction, so they invited him to join them on their journey.  He looked familiar to them, but “something prevented them from recognizing him.”  Something would have to happen to them before they could recognize him.

 

The familiar stranger asked them what they had been talking about in their journey. Cleopas asked, “Are you the only visitor to Jerusalem who does not know the things that have happened there in these days?” “What things,” the stranger asked? Suddenly like the floodgates of a massive dam yielding to the pent-up waters,  these disciples’ emotions came gushing forth—their hopes, and the dashing of those hopes, and the resulting pain in their lives—word after word, feeling after feeling, pain after pain—all of it all came uncontrollably gushing forth!  Amidst all their talking, they seemed to sum it all up in their words, “But we had hoped that he was the one to redeem Israel.”

 

The familiar stranger then began to speak to them.  His words stirred their hearts as they heard the scriptures interpreted for their lives.   He told them how God had acted through Jesus, through the events of the past week.  All that had happened was according to God’s plan for their salvation.  As the familiar stranger spoke, that quenched flame of hope in their lives began to “glow” once again.

 

They arrived at the village where they lived.  The familiar stranger appeared to be going further.  However, these two travelers insisted that he stay with them for the night.  They prepared a meal for the three of them.  Finally, all was prepared, and the three tired travelers sat at the kitchen table for their meal.  The familiar stranger took the bread, he blessed it, broke it, and gave it to them.  His actions seemed all too familiar.  The familiar stranger had broken the bread, just as Jesus had had broken the bread those many suppers together.  The familiar stranger had broken the bread, just as Jesus had broken the bread when feeding the hungry on a hillside in Galilee.  The familiar stranger had broken the bread, just as Jesus had broken the bread only a few nights before in the Upper Room.

 

Suddenly the veil dropped from before their eyes, and their spiritual blindness vanished.  They recognized that this familiar stranger was no stranger at all—rather he was Jesus.  He was not Jesus hanging from a Roman cross, his body broken, bruised, and bleeding. He was not Jesus lying dead in a cold tomb.  This was Jesus, alive and present with them at their kitchen table!   Then, as soon as they recognized his presence with them, he disappeared from their sight.  They knew in their hearts that he had not gone from them.  Rather he was present with them in a new and wonderful way.  He was present with them as their risen Lord. He had come to them in their time of need.  He had come, and in his coming he had transformed an ordinary moment into a “sacred moment.”

 

Nighttime had fallen.  The road back to Jerusalem was dangerous because of bandits. Even more so, Jerusalem was the very place from where they had been escaping. Jerusalem was the very place where their lives were most threatened.  They had to make a decision. They could remain safe in Emmaus, behind the walls of their home.  Or, they could return to Jerusalem and tell others about Christ meeting them on the road to Emmaus. Of course, they did choose to return to Jerusalem.  They had to return to Jerusalem, to tell everyone of having met the Risen Lord in the guise of the familiar stranger.

 

Christ still comes into our lives when we are in need.  Frederick Buechner put it this way, “He comes to those who are broken...even when our hopes have been dashed, even when our confidence in the future has been shaken, even when we find ourselves utterly broken and bereft, he comes still.”

 

The French movie, “Chocolate” was showing on TV the other night.  That movie tells of a wandering chocolate maker and her daughter who moved to a small isolated French village in the 1950’s.  Beneath the veneer of that, sleepy-seeming village dwelled people that were in bondage to their fears.  They had lost hope.  They believed that their future could not be any better than their present.  Therefore, instead of grasping the freedom of a future that might be—they were willing to surrender to the bondage of their fears. Many of the residents of this isolated village were suspicious of the attractive, young mother who had moved in among them, and had opened a chocolate shop.  She is warm and welcoming.  She further had a certain freedom about her life—a freedom that made some of them uneasy.  A civic and church leader even encouraged her to “move-on” to another town. Yet she stayed.  

 

Her “chocolate” slowly became a catalyst in their lives.  Her chocolate became the catalyst that enabled an abused wife to find the courage to leave her husband.  Her “chocolate” became the catalyst for a mother to allow her young son to visit his grandmother.  Her “chocolate” became the catalyst for two adults to find a renewed romance in their marriage.  Her “chocolate” became the catalyst for a young gipsy to find a home in that community.  Her “chocolate” became the catalyst for the young village priest to find his own voice in his Easter sermon, and to preach it with courage.  Only as the movie reaches its conclusion, do we recognize that this young mother has been the “Christ-figure” in the story.  As the “Christ-figure,” she had enabled the people of that isolated village to experience a creative and renewing hope in their lives.  In the last scene of the movie, her task done, the young mother and her daughter quietly move on to another community where there is a need.

 

‘Twas eventide. Along the dusty road

   Two weary travelers passed with aching feet

And heavy hearts, while each in saddened tones

   The story of their Lord would oft repeat...

 

When lo!  Along the road to Emmaus

   Their Lord, the risen Lord Christ Himself, drew near...

Their hearts were touched; the Master’s  thrilling words

   Dispelled their fears and cleared their darkened sight...

 

They said, with gladdened hearts, “It is our Lord,

   Our risen Christ for whom we long have yearned;

We knew Him not when walking by the way,

     And yet our hearts within us sweetly burned.

 

O Christian! Walking o’er Life’s rugged road,

   Thou too, like His disciples, oft shall say,

“Did not our hearts within us sweetly burn

   When Jesus talked with us beside the way?”

 

(Original Poems by Mrs. Olivia Bush, 1899, Louis A. Basinet Press;

 reprinted and published 1991 Oxford Univ. Press)

 

And, the familiar stranger walks with us still.

 

Dr. William dePrater

 

 

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